Travis Wilson

Travis Wilson has been an attorney since 1972, and in the Leather/BDSM lifestyle almost as long. He was one of the founders of Houston’s PEP, and was Chairman of that organization for 8 years.  He was the founder of the Houston S&M Ball, and was Chairman of that BDSM/Leather event for the first eight Balls, helping to make it an internationally known and respected Fetish event.

In April of 2004, he was the keynote speaker at the Leather Leadership Conference 8.   He was one of the facilitators for the 2005 Master’s Retreat held in Dallas, Texas.  He has presented at Black Rose, Beat me in St. Louis, Tribal Fire, Sinsations in Leather, Kinky Kollege, Texas Leather Pride, the GWNN Bash, Living in Leather, Camp Crucible, Texas Latex Party, Ms. Gulf Coast Leather, and many more events.

When not working or playing with his leather Toys, Travis plays trumpet in Jazz and Rock/Blues/R&B bands. Hey, a guy has to have some fun once in a while.

Bullwhips

Noise, pain, passion, sensations of all kinds. From the gentle feel of leather wrapping around the body to harsh cracks resounding against skin, leaving marks as harsh as you dare, or kisses as gentle as a breeze.. Single tails can take you all the way, however fast, and however hard you want. Loving and sensual, cruel and biting. Come learn the basics on what makes them work, how to use them safely, how to choose the style that works for you, how to practice, and how to play them in ways that excite both you and your partner. You will be surprised at the ease in which you can learn this exciting BDSM tool.

Communication in a Scene: How to Read a Bottom/How to be Read by a Top

Ever negotiate a scene and some one tell you they are a pain slut and find out they are not, at least by your idea of a pain slut? Ever negotiate a scene and someone tell you they are NOT a pain slut, but during the scene you find they want to go farther then you could imagine? Ever have someone go “quiet” and not know what it means? Every have someone giggle while you think you are hitting as hard as you can?

Trust me, Safe Words are NOT enough. Negotiations are NOT enough. We, Bottoms and Tops must learn to “communicate” during our scenes, but in ways that don’t ruin the mood or the “space”.  We have to learn to read physical language, and maybe even the language of human energies.

I have some ideas, (one of them my own secret, come in and I will tell it to you). You have your ideas, so bring those.  Together lets try and discover ways to make our scenes more memorable, more “hot”, more where both partners want to really go.